Recently dear spend quite a lot on me....buying me things from food to hp accessories. It's nice to receive gifts but i'm worried that he's over spending. i think he's angry that i transferred the $ back to him....still wondering did i do the right thing or am i dissappointing him for his efforts done......:-( i also feel sad when i received his message and sms.
As i do not come from well to do background, i always tell myself to work hard for the things i want to own and not to depend on anyone. If i can't afford that things i want i will save up $ slowly to buy instead to ask parents or anyone to buy for me. In my daily life i seldom receive things, gifts or even ask for help. Maybe because there's rarely celebration of festivals or occassions in my home and not even my birthday.....i can't even remember my latest birthday celebrated with my family. i prefer to earn for the things i need and always remind myself that i must not over spend and become "月光族". Still remember my home economic lesson on "Need" and "Wants", really helps alot in stopping myself from over spending.
我真的害怕会宠坏......
2 comments:
Have you explained nicely and clearly to him why you did that? he won't understand unless you explained it to him. I alway believe that in a relationship, there should alway have communication, in this way, both of u then can really understand what the other party needs/wants. Once in a while you should enjoyed being doted cos gf should always get doted. Prehaps in certain things or time you should lower down your stubborn. Dun think too much ok.. cheer up! See you this thurs. I am going to wear the blouse you bought me oohh.. hehe :D
u'll make him feel useless by returning the money n stuffs bu shi ma? girls ou er xiang shou bei chong chong de feeling shi mei you cuo de ah! Jiayou! :D
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